About the song
“Sexual Healing” stands as an iconic testament to Marvin Gaye’s musical prowess and personal resilience, marking a pivotal moment in his career and in the realm of R&B music. Released in 1982 as part of his final studio album “Midnight Love,” the song quickly ascended to critical acclaim and commercial success, solidifying its place as a timeless classic.
Following tumultuous times including financial troubles, a strained relationship with Motown, and personal battles with depression and drug addiction, Gaye found solace in the coastal town of Ostend, Belgium. It was here, amidst the tranquil beaches and away from the pressures of his past, that Gaye began to heal both personally and musically. Collaborating with musicians Gordon Banks and Odell Brown, Gaye embraced new influences, particularly from the reggae music he encountered during a tour in England, which shaped the rhythmic and soulful sound of “Sexual Healing.”
The song’s production was revolutionary for its time, featuring the innovative use of a Roland TR-808 drum machine that provided its distinct percussive elements. This, combined with Gaye’s signature smooth vocals and evocative lyrics, crafted an intimate and sensual atmosphere that resonated deeply with audiences. The lyrics, partly inspired by a conversation with journalist David Ritz, delve into themes of desire, love, and emotional healing, capturing Gaye’s yearning for intimacy and connection.
Upon its release, “Sexual Healing” soared to the top of the charts, reaching number one on Billboard’s Hot R&B Singles chart and peaking at number three on the Billboard Hot 100. Its success was mirrored globally, achieving top positions in Canada, New Zealand, and across Europe. The song’s impact extended beyond its chart performance, earning Gaye two Grammy Awards in 1983 for Best Male R&B Vocal Performance and Best R&B Instrumental Performance.
Critically acclaimed for its innovative production and lyrical depth, “Sexual Healing” remains a cornerstone of Marvin Gaye’s legacy and a defining moment in the evolution of R&B music. It has been honored in numerous best-of lists, including Rolling Stone’s 500 Greatest Songs of All Time, where it currently stands at number 198. Its influence continues to reverberate through contemporary music, reaffirming its status as a timeless masterpiece that transcends generations.
As Marvin Gaye’s final chart-topping hit and a cultural touchstone, “Sexual Healing” continues to captivate listeners with its soulful melodies and enduring message of love and healing. Beyond its musical accolades, the song stands as a testament to Gaye’s resilience and artistic vision, cementing his place as one of the greatest musical innovators of his time.
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Lyrics
Oh, baby now let’s get down tonight (ba-ba-ba, bum)
Ooh baby, I’m hot just like an oven (heal me my darling, heal me my darling)
I need some lovin’
And baby, I can’t hold it much longer (heal me my darling, heal me my darling)
It’s getting stronger and stronger
When I get that feeling
I want sexual healing
Sexual healing, oh baby
Makes me feel so fine
Helps to relieve my mind
Sexual healing baby, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that’s good for me
Whenever blue teardrops are fallin’
And my emotional stability is leaving me
There is something I can do
I can get on the telephone and call you up, baby
And honey I know you’ll be there to relieve me
The love you give to me will free me
If you don’t know the thing you’re dealing
Oh I can tell you, darling, that it’s sexual healing
Let’s make love tonight
(Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up)
‘Cause you do it right
Baby, I got sick this mornin’ (heal me my darling, heal me my darling)
A sea was stormin’ inside of me
Baby, I think I’m capsizin'(heal me my darling, heal me my darling)
The waves are risin’ and risin’
And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing
Sexual healing is good for me
Makes me feel so fine, it’s such a rush
Helps to relieve the mind, and it’s good for us
Sexual healing, baby, it’s good for me
Sexual healing is something that’s good for me
Well, it’s good for me and it’s so good to me my baby, oh
Come take control, just grab a hold
Of my body and mind, soon we’ll be making it, honey
I’ll be feeling fine
You’re my medicine, open up and let me in
Darling, you’re so great, I can’t wait for you to operate
(Heal me my darling)
(Heal me my darling)
I can’t wait for you to operate
When I get this feeling (heal me my darling)
I need sexual healing
Oh, when I get this feeling (heal me my darling)
I need sexual healing
I gotta have sexual healing, darling (heal me my darling)
‘Cause I’m all alone
I need Sexual healing, darling (heal me my darling)
‘Til you come back home (heal me my darling)
Please don’t procrastinate
It’s not good to masturbate