About the song
“Tougher Than the Rest” is a standout track from Bruce Springsteen’s 1987 album *Tunnel of Love*, showcasing a different facet of the artist’s versatile songwriting. Although it was not released as a single in the United States, the song gained significant traction in Europe, reaching No. 3 on the Swiss charts and making notable appearances in the Top 20 across the United Kingdom, the Netherlands, and Austria. Its reception in Europe underscores its lasting appeal and highlights Springsteen’s international influence.
Recorded between January and May 1987 at Springsteen’s home studio, Thrill Hill East in Rumson, New Jersey, “Tougher Than the Rest” captures the moodiness and introspective quality of the *Tunnel of Love* album. While originally conceived as a rockabilly number, the final version evolved into a slower, more methodical rhythm, blending synthesizers and a heavy drum sound to create a layered and atmospheric track. Springsteen’s performance is characterized by a mix of bravado and vulnerability, reflecting the song’s themes of love and resilience.
Lyrically, “Tougher Than the Rest” presents a candid and realistic view of relationships. The narrator, aware of his imperfections and past experiences, extends a challenge to his love interest to match his willingness to embrace the rough and unpredictable nature of love. This approach contrasts with the romantic idealism of earlier songs like “Thunder Road,” offering a more grounded and mature perspective. The refrain, “There’s another dance, all you have to do is say yes,” symbolizes the readiness to take a chance on love despite its inherent difficulties.
The music video for “Tougher Than the Rest” is notable for its inclusive representation of relationships. Directed by Meiert Avis, it features a mix of live concert footage and vignettes of couples, including both heterosexual and same-sex pairs. This representation was handled with subtlety and respect, reflecting Springsteen’s commitment to diversity and authenticity in his work.
Live, “Tougher Than the Rest” has been a consistent favorite among fans. It was a regular feature of the *Tunnel of Love Express* Tour, where it often opened the second set. The song has been performed 98 times in concert up until July 2005, with a notable live version recorded on April 27, 1988, at the Los Angeles Memorial Sports Arena, which was later featured on the EP *Chimes of Freedom*.
In essence, “Tougher Than the Rest” stands as a testament to Bruce Springsteen’s ability to craft emotionally resonant songs that capture the complexities of human relationships. Its enduring popularity, especially in Europe, and its impact both in the studio and on stage, solidify its place as a beloved entry in Springsteen’s extensive catalog.
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Lyrics
Well It’s Saturday night
You’re all dressed up in blue
I been watching you awhile
Maybe you been watching me too
So somebody ran out
Left somebody’s heart in a mess
Well if you’re looking for love
Honey I’m tougher than the rest
Some girls they want a handsome Dan
Or some good-lookin’ Joe
On their arm some girls like a sweet-talkin’ Romeo
Well ’round here baby
I learned you get what you can get
So if you’re rough enough for love
Honey I’m tougher than the rest
The road is dark
And it’s a thin thin line
But I want you to know I’ll walk it for you any time
Maybe your other boyfriends
Couldn’t pass the test
Well if you’re rough and ready for love
Honey I’m tougher than the rest
Well it ain’t no secret
I’ve been around a time or two
Well I don’t know baby maybe you’ve been around too
Well there’s another dance
All you gotta do is say yes
And if you’re rough and ready for love
Honey I’m tougher than the rest
If you’re rough enough for love
Baby I’m tougher than the rest