About the song
**Big Girls Don’t Cry: A Timeless Pop Classic**
The Four Seasons, a vocal group known for their smooth harmonies and catchy melodies, released “Big Girls Don’t Cry” in 1962. This timeless pop classic quickly became a chart-topping hit, reaching number one on the Billboard Hot 100. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its relatable lyrics and unforgettable tune.
Written by Bob Gaudio and Bob Crewe, “Big Girls Don’t Cry” tells the story of a heartbroken young man who is struggling to come to terms with the end of a relationship. The song’s title is a clever play on the phrase “boys don’t cry,” suggesting that while men are often expected to hide their emotions, women are somehow allowed to express their sadness more openly.
The song begins with a simple, yet effective piano intro that sets the melancholic tone. Frankie Valli’s lead vocals are filled with emotion as he sings about his pain and longing. The harmonies provided by the other members of The Four Seasons add depth and richness to the arrangement.
One of the most memorable aspects of “Big Girls Don’t Cry” is its bridge. The song suddenly shifts into a more upbeat tempo, creating a sense of hope and optimism. Valli’s vocals become more energetic as he sings about the possibility of finding love again. This contrast between the somber verses and the uplifting bridge adds to the song’s emotional impact.
The song’s popularity can be attributed to its relatability. Many people have experienced heartbreak and can relate to the feelings expressed in the lyrics. The song’s catchy melody and memorable chorus also contribute to its enduring appeal. “Big Girls Don’t Cry” is a classic example of a well-crafted pop song that has stood the test of time.
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Lyrics
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cryBig girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (who said they don’t cry?)
My girl said goodbye-yi-yi (my oh my)
My girl didn’t cry (I wonder why)(Silly boy) told my girl we had to break up
(Silly boy) hoped that she would call my bluff
(Silly boy) then she said to my surprise
“Big girls don’t cry”Big girls don’t cry-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (who said they don’t cry?)(Maybe) I was cru-you-uel (I was cruel)
Baby I’m a fool (I’m such a fool)(Silly girl) “Shame on you” your mama said
(Silly girl) “Shame on you, you’re cryin’ in bed”
(Silly girl) “Shame on you, you told me lies”
Big girls do cryBig girls don’t cr-yi-yi (they don’t cry)
Big girls don’t cry (that’s just an alibi)
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry
Big girls don’t cry